1.FIND
YOUR DREAMS
Very important to write down your dreams on a
sheet of paper. This is extremely important moment. A sheet of paper helps us
to make absolutely clear what we really want, make our dream more real and
practical. When the dream is written down on a paper it becomes not so scaring.
The most people are afraid of the things they do not know. That is why till the
time your dream remains only in your mind, it can be too big and abstract.
Besides the dreams written on a sheet of paper, will remind you about your
daily goals.
2. BREAK YOU DREAM INTO THE LIMITED IN TIME GOALS
At first your dream seems very big, long-termed
and very scaring. You do not even know how to start making it come true. What
to start with? Intermediate goals make your dream more clear. Very important to
set up the deadlines for each of your goals. This will help you to define the
action plan. Though your goals do not make your dream smaller, they make your
dream more clear and practical for you. It won't be so big as it was at first
sight. All great achievements consist of many small achievements. Our mind
easier operates with many little goals, that one great dream. You'll feel the
sense of relief, once you break your big dream to smaller goals.
3.DEVELOP AN ACTION PLAN
Now you see your dream as something real. But
still do not believe it can come true, because you do not know the way how to
materialize your dream. This point is very important, because the realization
of your dream depends on correct and working action plan. Think about your
action plan. If you dream is big enough, you can not find appropriate ideas at
once. But don't give up. Your conscious mind is limited, it does not know the
answer to all the questions. Right here you need the help from your
subconscious mind. The time for delivering an appropriate idea may vary from 1
hour till 3 monthes. It depends on your congruency with your dream. It means
how much you believe in your dream. Your subconscious mind accepts the requests
and begins working on it. The idea will come suddenly, the moment you will
expect it the less. Your job to think about the action plan and wait for an
answer.
4. DEFINE WHAT PERSON YOU SHOULD BE TO ACHIEVE
THIS GOAL
Imagine, you have already reach your dreams. Do
you see the new you? I don't believe the new you is the same as now. Probably
he is quite different, more confident, will smile more often, will treat other
people better? Just sit down and describe the new person in details, what his
new traits of character, the clothing this person wears, the relations in the
family, etc. Of course the attitude to life will be different than something
like «excuse me for being alive». Make the most detailed description you can.
But do not force your character change to the one you just have written on the
paper. It will not work. This process will go automatically, when you will do
the next point.
5. VISUALIZE YOURSELF ALREADY REACH YOUR GOALS
This items belongs to the self suggestion section.
You should practice it daily. You have to make your subconsciousness to work
for you, to support you, but not against you. If it will work against you,
you're doomed to failure. But you're able to make your subconscious mind to
work with you using the methods of self suggestion.
6. DEFINE THE GOAL, THAT COMES AFTER THE CURRENT
ONE
Current item is very important, when you reach
your current goal. What happens when you reach your goal. Is it a final
destination point? Absolutely not. The achievement of the current goal is the
starting point towards achieving the new goal and advantage. Some people stops
after they reach one goals. Big mistake. They just forgot to set up another
goal. Though they reach the goal, they can not stop. This is just the small
part of the overall road to success. There is long road ahead. If you set up
the next goal at once, you will easily avoid this trap and all the life be in
process of pursuing your dream. The dream is not the destination point, it is a
part of the course of our life. Do not forget, that your life will end at the
moment when you reach your dream and forget to set up the new one. When you
achieve one goal, you decide to start pursuing some bigger goal, something
better. Do not take a rest. It is very similar, when driving a car you decide,
where to go now. The same problems refer to our goal.
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